CHAPTER IV - Refusal of the Call: Mindset and Values Questioning

Refusal of the call is normal and almost universal. Fear, doubt, and limiting beliefs surface the moment the adventure becomes real.

Carol Dweck’s research shows that a growth mindset, defined as the belief that abilities including intelligence and skills can be developed through dedication and hard work, leads to greater resilience and achievement. People with a fixed mindset avoid challenges to protect their ego (Dweck, 2006). (6)

Exercise – Mindset Audit (15 minutes)

• For each of three recent situations where you felt stuck, ask:
  • Was I operating from a fixed mindset (“I’m not good at this”)?
  • What would a growth mindset response look like (“I’m not good at this yet. What can I learn?”)?
• Write one concrete micro-action you will take this week to practice the growth response.